Why It’s Good to Be “Tyrannically Specific” About What You Desire

 

Many people assume that being more broad & flexible with their desires will make them more likely to get met.

Like if you are too specific, you make it too hard on life to give you what you want. 

This is not true. 

For two reasons. 

Firstly, the underlying assumption that has someone broaden their desires is problematic in & of itself.

If you assume that it will be difficult for you to be met in your specific desires,

Then broadening the scope & specificity of your desires is based on skepticism of your ability to be met.

So you try to “make it easier” on life, but you’re actually sabotaging yourself with your own come-from. 

Because as you carry the assumption that your truest, most specific desires most likely will not be met.

You guarantee they will not be. 

Secondly, since when did giving broad instructions to someone ever help them to successfully fulfill what you wanted them to do?

Sure - sometimes you have good luck and the person produces something you happen to LOVE. 

But more commonly: specificity of vision = specificity of outcome. 

Where specificity of desire becomes problematic is when it is accompanied by control and a lack of receptivity. 

Specificity of desire is powerful.

You can be “tyrannically specific” about what you desire, without actually being tyrannical.

When you are clear on the exact frequency of how it FEELS to have what you desire, you provide clear channels for life to deliver upon. 

But when you want to remain in control of exactly HOW those desires get fulfilled & the exact form they take,

You undermine your magnetism. 

And you become non-receptive to the infinite number of ways your exact desires COULD be fulfilled, in ways you have yet to imagine possible. 

The magic lies in being a clear beacon. 

The vortex of your desire becomes increasingly bright & powerful through purification of the frequency you hold & emanate. 

Purification of the “signal” you are emanating occurs through specification. 

Specification = what IS your desire & what is NOT your desire.

If you are not specific, the signal is messy & muddied. 

Which makes you a less clear beacon. 

Again, we are working at the level of feeling-frequency. 

How does it specifically FEEL to have what you desire?

What you imagine the fulfillment of those desires looking like often does come into form,

But the fulfillment of your desires might also look very different than you initially imagined.

Regardless, in both cases your desires = fulfilled 💦

So now the question remains, how does one become “tyrannically specific” about their desires without actually being tyrannical?

Specificity is cultivated through the ability to feel & track subtlety. 

Not actually being tyrannical about it comes from cultivating receptivity. 

Both of these things can be cultivated through communing with your body’s intelligence, and especially through your pussy & pleasure.

You hone your ability to feel & track subtlety through developing increased sensitivity to the signals of your body.

And you cultivate receptivity through being in the literal practice of receiving.

(Hello, self-pleasure!)

Become a “tyrant” of desire with me here. 😉