Why Crystal Dildos?
Using a crystal dildo changed my solo-sex life.
And it changed my sex with partners too.
Why?
Because it fundamentally changed the way I relate to my own body.
Years ago, my self-pleasure used to look a lot like most people’s does today:
Fast and furious. Goal-oriented. Focused on orgasm. Focused on the clitoris. Addicted to my vibrator. Hoping to relieve stress or get a quick hit of peak pleasure & release.
Far from “making love.”
But making love is the exact way I’d describe my self-pleasure now. I make love to myself. I seduce myself, spend time with myself, and caress my entire body.
Using a crystal pleasure wand caused me to SLOW DOWN and become present with myself. To honour my body & touch myself with intention. It taught me how to be my own lover…
Experiencing this kind of pleasure with myself (where I removed the goal of orgasm and focused on spending quality time with my own body) ignited a new kind of confidence & self-love within me.
For many women, using a crystal wand is an introduction to pleasuring yourself in a slow, relaxed, intentional way.
Here are several commonly-expressed reasons as to why we LOVE using crystal pleasure wands for masturbation…
1. It’s NON-vibrating (…SLOW PLEASURE)
When we stop relying on vibrators for pleasure, we can fundamentally shift the way we experience sex - for the better!
I love a good vibrator as much as the next woman, but the truth is that they can de-sensitize us. Not only does repetitive vibrator use make it more difficult to experience satisfying pleasure with a partner (a tongue, finger, or cock just can’t compete…), but the intense stimulation of vibrators allows us to bypass our emotions & subtle sensations.
When we slow down, relax our body (rather than tensing it), breathe deeply, and tune into the subtle sensations of simple human touch or a non-vibrating wand, we open up a world of possibilities!
When using a non-vibrating toy for the first time - you may uncover a lot of suppressed emotions & feelings. Slowing down and creating space to experience subtle pleasure, can cause the feelings we previously bypassed to bubble to the surface.
The first few times I self-pleasured in a slow, intentional way, I cried. And later, as I gave myself more permission to feel deeply & express myself, I screamed.
I still do! This is what makes self-pleasure & sex healing - when we can allow it to be our own sanctuary. Our space to let go & release all of the things we’ve been holding on to.
2. It feels like art
Using an object that is stunningly beautiful, natural & luxurious sets the stage for self-pleasure to be a more deeply self-honouring & sacred experience.
This can be huge for helping women to heal sexual shame around masturbation, because they start to view their self-pleasure as being beautiful & ritualistic as opposed to shameful, dirty, & taboo.
3. Internal stimulation
Until women use a wand that is designed for internal stimulation, many will continue relying on clitoral stimulation & orgasms as the end-game. But the clitoris is just the beginning!
Using a crystal pleasure wand was the push I needed to start awakening & discovering the pleasure & power INSIDE my vagina. And I’ve never looked back…
Every woman can experience life-changing, internal vaginal orgasms - including YOU! But if you’re not willing to go inside, you’ll never get there.
4. High vibration
You already enjoy crystal healing properties & vibrations (i.e. you decorate your space with crystals) because it feels good, right?? So why would you NOT want to use a gorgeous crystal wand inside your yoni??
Honestly, I was on the fence about crystal vibrations UNTIL I started using crystal pleasure wands.
I’ve used my fair share of sex toys - and I can say without a doubt that I FEEL the difference when I use my crystal dildos.
I’ll be honest, when I first used a crystal pleasure wand, I had no idea what I was doing…
Do I just thrust it in and out of me?
This is weird...
Maybe I'll just go back to using a vibrator...
But I persisted ;)
And quickly I found that my whole experience of pleasure changed!
My crystal wand helped me SLOW down and FEEL more. It introduced me to the deep pleasure INSIDE my vagina.
It introduced me to some of the sexual shame I was holding on to in my body.
(The shame that using a vibrator for quick & easy stimulation allowed me to avoid feeling).
Above all - it encouraged me to start treating myself as my own lover.
My crystal pleasure wand makes me feel womanly, beautiful, and sensual.
It has turned my self-pleasure into a deeply self-loving practice that I now look forward to.
And it's made my masturbation much more meaningful than a simple routine to relieve stress.
It changed my relationship to my body, my heart, & my vagina.
If you want to learn how I use my crystal dildo - watch the video below.
And if you want to choose your own pleasure wand - click here.
Sending you love & pleasure!
Courtney xx